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Trim off your worries

Yes it’s not as easy as writing anything you feel , it takes miles to get into other’s shoes and understand what they have been going through. Therefore, with this debate, I lost the case and the right to suggest anything to anybody. But if given another opportunity I would like to put an argument to reopen my case , Yes your worries are true , yes you have been going through , yes I cannot reach to you offering help but all I am saying is nothing is permanent in this world. The nature has not been scripted to remain permanent, so is our lives and so are your worries. Now let’s get back to your worries, you have a Problem Let’s say “ P “ , this has resulted in a worry let’s say “ W “ ; This tells us Your Problem “ P “ is the reason for your worry “ W “ ;P ȡ W Equation (1) ↔ W ȡ P Equation (2) (W ↑) ȡ (P ↑) – Equation (3) The Problem being a fixed event is constant at the moment but your worry is a free constant and can Increase ↑ or Decrease ↓ purely based on your way of handling the moment and subsequently will affect the quantum of your problem. This reminds me of an author who once said “If your problem has a solution in your worries , worry as much as you can but if being worried cannot resolve your problem what’s the point of burning extra calories on overthinking and becoming a victim of ill mental health”. Not only we overthink, we keep the burden some of our old worries with us which just make our heart heavy. Think about all the old worries that you have kept in your head for years only to find out later that it was a baseless worry. My favourite is “I will never pass that exam!” the classic worry of all students a day before their exam ;look back at it you did pass those exams and even if you did not you passed beyond it in life! So either change the situation you are in and stay calm, or believe it’s not meant to be resolved by you and move on. Life is short, enjoy !! Problems are meant to be a part of it and your reaction would be the master to the situation.



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